Relationship Skills Guide
Building and maintaining healthy relationships
Effective Communication
Active Listening
Listen effectively:
- Give full attention
- Maintain eye contact
- Show you understand
- Ask open questions
- Avoid interrupting
Clear Expression
Express yourself well:
- Use "I" statements
- Be specific
- Stay on topic
- Check understanding
- Be respectful
Healthy Boundaries
Setting Boundaries
Establish limits:
- Know your values
- Identify your limits
- Communicate clearly
- Be consistent
- Respect others' boundaries
Maintaining Boundaries
Keep boundaries strong:
- Stand firm
- Address violations
- Review regularly
- Adjust when needed
- Practice self-care
Conflict Resolution
Managing Disagreements
Handle conflicts well:
- Stay calm
- Listen to both sides
- Focus on issues
- Avoid blame
- Seek solutions
Finding Solutions
Resolve differences:
- Identify common ground
- Brainstorm options
- Compromise fairly
- Make agreements
- Follow through
Building Trust
Core Elements
Build trust through:
- Be reliable
- Keep promises
- Be honest
- Show respect
- Maintain confidentiality
Rebuilding Trust
After trust is broken:
- Acknowledge mistakes
- Take responsibility
- Make amends
- Be patient
- Show consistency
Emotional Support
Showing Empathy
Support others:
- Validate feelings
- Show understanding
- Offer comfort
- Be present
- Give space when needed
Receiving Support
Accept help gracefully:
- Express needs clearly
- Be open to help
- Show appreciation
- Return support
- Build support network